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Neale Daniher funeral: MCG crowd gathers for AFL legend to pay tribute to FightMND campaigner

Bridget McArthur and Peter Ryan
Updated ,first published
Pinned post from 1.17pm on Jun 10, 2026
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A perfect way to say goodbye

By Bridget McArthur

What a perfect service, which of course Neale was involved in planning – the music, in particular, I’m sure, if he’s as tyrannical on the aux as his son Ben said.

It was lovely to hear more about the man off the field and behind the scenes. Everyone has a story about Neale.

We are going to close out the live blog now, but feel free to keep the conversation going. If you’ve got your own favourite memory of Neale, we’d love to hear about it in the comments.

And a reminder, if you want to pay a tribute, the family is inviting people to make donations to fightmnd.org.au in lieu of flowers.

Play on.

There goes Mr Brightside

By Bridget McArthur and Peter Ryan

It wouldn’t be Neale Daniher’s funeral without Mr. Brightside. The Killers’ track was famously a favourite of his.

His family have a long way to walk, following the funeral hearse down the guard of honour, which stretches hundreds of metres along Daniher’s Way.

People observe the procession with quiet contemplation, before breaking into applause as Neale and his family pass.

It’s lovely to see so many blue beanies.

The Daniher family follow Neale’s hearse away from the MCG.AFL Photos
Bec Daniher shares a moment outside the service.AFL Photos

A few tears from those joining online too

By Bridget McArthur
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You and me both, Yvonne.

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Neale’s family carry his casket to the hearse

By Bridget McArthur and Peter Ryan

As Hamish McLachlan says, closing out the service, Daniher “changed the way many of us look at the world and the cards we’ve been dealt” with “his hope, his humour, his heart”.

“He never asked us to feel sorry for him. He just asked us to fight alongside of him. And the country picked up a beanie and answered collectively. We are a better community because of you.

“The world feels less without you Neale but much better because you were here … Neale, we will honour your wishes and play on. Rest in peace.”

Members of the Daniher family on the MCG as the service draws towards a close.AFL Photos

Daniher’s children Lauren, Luke and Ben, his brothers Terry and Chris, and son-in-law Drew Howell, carry Neale’s casket to the hearse.

There’s spontaneous applause from the few thousand in attendance as Daniher leaves the MCG with a guard of honour forming outside, stretching down Daniher’s Way, as one of his favourite songs, Sting’s Fields of Gold, plays out.

Jan Daniher’s moving tribute to her husband Neale

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A two-time premiership coach remembers his hero

By Bridget McArthur

Fagan finishes the last tribute of the service with a sentiment I think many Australians would echo.

“I’ve got three heroes in my life – my dad, my mum and Neale … thank you, Neale, for making this world a better place.”

And now some music to accompany a beautiful slide show of Neale’s life.

In his own words, “life gives you opportunity, it doesn’t ever say it will be fair”. But when all’s said and done, “I’ve been dealt a great hand”.

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Fagan: ‘He helped me overcome my imposter syndrome’

By Bridget McArthur

Speaking now is Brisbane coach Chris Fagan, who has Daniher to thank for giving him a job at an AFL club 29 years ago at the Dees.

Fagan says Neale was most heightened when Melbourne played Essendon, his old team. One day they were playing them at the MCG, and were in the last quarter, when Fagan deigned to push back on Neale’s direction to shift a key player into defence.

Brisbane Lions coach and Neale Daniher’s great friend, Chris Fagan.AFL Photos

“He looked at me with one of those looks that only he can give, and he decided to go with me, but he said, ‘You better get it right mate’ … fortunately we won the game.”

“Neale made me feel valued. He gave me confidence. He believed in me. He helped me sort of overcome my imposter syndrome that maybe I didn’t belong as a coach at AFL level because I didn’t play at AFL level … I’m so thankful to him for that.”

How a terrible first impression led to a beautiful friendship

By Bridget McArthur

Cam Taylor, a Tambellup farmer and friend of Neale, was given strict instructions by Jan for his speech: “Make sure you give Neale a bit of a roast”.

Their kids – both called Ben – were friends first. One day, Cam came around to the Danihers’ house to pick up his son.

“Neale opened the door and said, ‘Who are you?’”

Cam Taylor reflects on his family’s friendship with the Danihers, forged in Western Australia.AFL Photos via Getty Images

Cam tried small talk – “Eagles going well?” – before his son came to the door, at which point Neale looked at him and said, “Take your son and nick off”.

“[He’s a] bit of an ass, I thought, as we walked to the car. Little did I know that that brief foot in the door moment would lead to a wonderful friendship.”

David Neitz recalls the legendary advice Neale Daniher lived by

By Bridget McArthur

Neale was nothing if not consistent – the advice he gave was the advice he lived by.

David Neitz, who captained the Demons when Daniher was coach, delivering his eulogy.AFL Photos

Former Melbourne skipper and two-time All-Australian David Neitz remembers a story he told the team once about a pack of lions attacking an antelope and a wildebeest.

The antelope quickly accepted its fate, but not so for the wildebeest.

“He didn’t roll over. He fought … in the end, the lions got the wildebeest. But the wildebeest went down fighting … play like a wildebeest.”

This was over two decades ago. The average length of time someone lives for after being diagnosed with MND is about 27 months. Neale played on for 13 years. Safe to say, he fought like a wildebeest until the end.

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The day Paul Kelly sang ‘Leaps and Bounds’ for Neale

By Bridget McArthur

A surprise musical guest, Paul Kelly, singing Leaps and Bounds – in itself an emotional song for many Melburnians.

It’s hard not to picture Neale high on the hill, looking over the bridge to the MCG.

Kelly finishes: “I remember. We remember you, Neale. We remember you, Reverend.”

Songmaster Paul Kelly pays his tribute.AFL Photos via Getty Images
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